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writes: I go and see my "friend" every once in a while and he has always made me horny and felt me up. I welcome this gladly. At one point I thought I was hornier than him, but the other day i got the courage to touch him and i found out he has been hiding his erections. I thought I had seen one one day but I turned to get a cig and it was gone so I thought I had imagined it, I guess I was wrong. I dont want him to hide it I want him to be free about it I want him to openly tell me that he wants to screw me. I understand that he wants me to make the first move because he doesnt want me to be uncomfortable but once I do make my move it would be nice if he would go on from there. Im so frustrated because I get really shy so it takes me a while to get the courage to even kiss him. When I do and we start to do something I glance at the clock and realize it is getting time for me to get home. I have a strict parent and i have to be home at a certain time. Now here is the other major problem. When I come home from his house I am so horny its not funny. I have masturbated but i dont know how to bring myself to an orgasm. Until I met him I never really touched myself. He has taught me how to be freer with my sexuality (I guess you can call it that).So i have like a lot of questions.1. How do I get the courage to start earlier?2. How do I get him to be freer with his erections?3. How do I help with the time issue? (Meaning how do i make time enough to have sex with him when he is a guy that can hold for hours?)4. How can I tell him that he makes me horny about 24/7? (Even when I think about him touching me it makes me horny).5. How do I please my self until we finally do have sex?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all.
I have no intention of getting out of this. He is the only person that has made me smile so much in the last few years.
Yes articles of clothing have come off. Mainly shirts we havent gone as far as pants but i felt him through his jeans. He is 10 years older than me I am 18. He just wants me to be comfortable with everything.
We cant really meet up eariler because he has college and I have school. We will have more time when I start college in January. An when he touches me my mind goes blank and i cant remember what i was going to say.
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reader, Welsh Uncle Dave  +, writes (27 November 2010):
1) Just get on with it, especially the stuff you've done before. One thing often leads to another.
2) if you've touched him once there, do it again, tell him you like the feel and it turns you on
3) Meet up earlier and make the most of your time
4) Just tell him, but probably do it while you're touching him or kissing him too
5) People tick in different ways. It seems you just haven't found what makes you tick yet.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2010): The only real solution to your problem is to get over your shyness! Why be shy if you know you are turning him on? No need for insecurity or any low confidence if he obviously thinks you are sexy. Just push him over and he'll get the message (this does not at all mean you are being un- femininely dominant. Perhaps just tip him over). Helloooooo if you are messing about with this guy and any article of your clothing has come off (I'd assume Something has, from your post)... why is He still stalling around... by that time his instincts ought to have taken over any hesitance in his own mind and you'd be being... shall we say... ravaged? No, "ravished" is neater. How old is this guy, anyway.Puzzled,Tante Vic
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2010): this is not a good situation, and I suggest you get out of it.
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