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writes: Im sure all of you are probably familiar with rihanna's new song "only girl" Well I have been in a few relationships and I want to know if it is actually possible to have your boyfriend treat you like the only girl in the world... Basically it means that he only see's you his mind is not on any other girl and he also can't imagine himself with another girl. I dont't know if this is actually possible because aren't guys designed to look at other girls when they are in a relationship, I just want to know if this is possible in any relationship and if so...how do you know? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, AgonyAuntiee93 +, writes (29 November 2010):
Yes it is possible; my man makes me feel wonderful; like im the only girl in the world. (L)(L)
If the man is loving, loyal, caring and that, he can make you feel like the only girl in the world.
If the man wants you for sex, entertainment and that, he cant possible make you feel like the only girl in the world.
Hope i helped :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2010): Yes nice loyal guys can easily be like that. However, most women don't see nice loyal guys as being attractive until they are older and have slept around a bit. Nice guys then end up not so nice anymore when they realize their women are whores. It's a vicious cycle.
My advice, find a nice guy when you're young. By nice, I mean smart, caring, loyal, and selfless. They are usually the ones who aren't popular and you don't notice. Go for the guys who seem a bit awkward at first, and detached from the social scene. These are the guys who are looking for one girl to be with.
Guys who are popular and experience a lot of girls don't care enough about one girl to only want her.
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reader, SillyB +, writes (27 November 2010):
I was just talking to my boyfriend about this song and this concept as I woke up!
he was trying to convince me that this is how he feels about me...I don't buy it. It's the little things, how he looks at me, whether he compliments me and goes gaga over me. On the other hand, I think he loves me to death, he does everything for me. I just don't think I'm his 'ideal' in the looks department and can see it in his eyes.
Now my ex made me feel the opposite, like I was the only girl in the world for him. Too bad he didn't treat me that way!
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (27 November 2010):
The music industry these days are designed to over exaggerate love and relationships. At the end of the day all guys are different, and sure they are going to look at other girls, we girls look at other girls and guys as well. There whole world is not going to be warped by one girl. But in saying that many guys find a girl that they want to spend the rest of there life with and they know that they wont want anyone else. Doesnt mean that they arent going to look at other girls or think that they arent attractive but what it does mean is that there love lies with one girl and they would jepordise that.
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reader, Sunnyxx +, writes (27 November 2010):
My boyfriend has said so.. but I'm not a mind reader!!
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