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anonymous
writes:Hello all. My question is should I worry or be concerned about my husband still using Facebook? Especially since thats how i found out about his affair. Also he deactivated his account but uses my son's account to log in and out. He's able to do this because my son used his phone to go on Facebook and did not log out. He deactivated his account because he swears that he never meant to hurt me. Is Facebook really that serious?
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reader, largentsgirl89 +, writes (27 November 2010):
 Did his affair originate from Facebook? And if he deleted his account from Facebook, then why does he need to log on to Facebook at all?
Do you trust your husband after finding out about his affair? Have you completely forgiven him for what he has done?
If it bothers you that much then talk to him about it, I would ask him why he needs to be on Facebook that badly and I would ask your son to change his password to his account and if your son needs to use the phone to log on, then remind him to delete the history or remember to log out.
I hope this helps, keep me update okay? Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2010): Yes the social networking sites are very dangerous bec some people like your hb does not use it just to stay in touch with friends and family, they also embark/hide their affairs here, all in the guise of friendship.
Fb and other sites have been instrumental (by the users) to end marriages. We talk amongst ourselves and u will be amazed what goes on on the networking sites.
Do u want to give your marriage a chance or do u want to end up with more heartache and pain? If your hb want to salvage your marriage tell him to stay the hell off all networking sites. U cannot trust him right now and he needs to know. Do not be clueless. Is this how he met his lover , and does he have 'special' friends, does he actively flirt? Is he remorseful, by the way u describe his activities ,I think not.
FB and the like have been abused by people who use it for other means. Your hb seems to be one of the creative ones.
How big a deal is Fb right now : if u do not want your marriage to end, your hb must stay the hell away.
Plse also check other secret accounts. You may just be surprised. Keep an eye on cell ph and emails and other accounts.
Good luck
LoveGirl
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (27 November 2010):
 It depends, have you forgiven him for his affair and let him regain the trust? Did his affair stem from being on Facebook connecting with women? Have you two received marriage counseling to sort this out? If you trust your husband then you have no problem. But seeing as you're questioning him and not so much Facebook then you have an issue. I suggest that you remind your son to log out of his Facebook so your husband isn't logging onto his account.
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