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writes: Why would this guy keep telling me he will call me and he never does, he's been doing this for months. I really did like him, when i call him most of the time he's avoidin my calls for days. By the he's 20 yrs old im 22 yrs old. Resently he gave out my phone number to 2 of his friends 1 of them keeps txtin me saying he aint tryin 2 beat it, then it said if you dont reply its your lost. I called my boyfrind askin why are you giving out my number he said he wouldn't do that. He still hasn't called me its been 2 weeks.
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reader, pixiegirls +, writes (28 November 2010):
Unfortunately, a guy that says they will call you may never have any intention of calling you, they are trying not to hurt your feelings, or they just never planned on it. It happens a lot, and should not be taken as something against you, but that he is just not interested. As hurtful as it may seem, it’s to your benefit to move on and find someone who is interested in you.
You say he does not call, avoids your calls, and even think he has given out your phone number, yet you call him your boyfriend. Do you have a relationship? Do you see him as a normal boyfriend and girlfriend would see each other?
Stop calling him. If he really wants to get in contact with you and see you, he will call you. If he doesn’t, then he wasn’t right for you in the first place. By waiting around for someone who so far hasn’t returned any messages, you make it hard for anyone else to get to know you and may miss out on a relationship where you are valued and wanted.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2010): So this guy is your bf?
Why are you wasting your time with someone who ignores you?
You deserve better and he sounds like a jerk
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