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writes:Okay my boyfriend woke up one day and called me and told me his dream, him and his ex arent exactly friends anymore due to her eager fighting ways and well she is suicidal at times, he woke up and told me he had a dream and I asked him to text me it and this is his text:" Well basically, I don't remember if I started there or if she told me to go there, but I was at the foot of a water tank, and I look up and she's at the edge of the catwalk, and she said 'I can't take it anymore' and jumped, and I saw everything... Anyways, after that, everywhere I went, I'd be reminded of what happened by her mom, my friends would even tell me it was my fault and after a while of that, I woke up. :c "Okay, that's was exactly his dream, anyway, they barely talk anymore and he keeps wishing they would just be friends and when they were together she was very abusive and would barely care for him, she would take him for granted and saw him as a push over, so he finally broke up with her and after many months (before being his girlfriend, I had been his best friend and crush for about 3 years.) I had been helping him get over her and well I also had a crush on him and slowly but surely we fell in love and got together. I am not her best friend and I never knew her before him because their relationship was long distance and ours isn't, well like I mentioned she is suicidal but has clearly said she would never be able to take her own life. But now my boyfriend is afraid that she might kill herself and is very uneasy about it because he see's her as a little sister. What does his dream mean so I can tell him?
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (10 September 2011):
 You're very welcome. Glad I was able to help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much! I have told my boyfriend this and he understand and agree's, thank you very much for giving me such a great answer, you have saved us both from the worry! Thank You and I really appreciate it!
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reader, AskEve +, writes (28 November 2010):
Being at the foot of water symbolizes your unconscious and your emotional state of mind. He needs to "stay on top" of his emotions and not let them explode out of hand. Him being constantly reminded by her friends and family just confirms in his mind that he feels guilty and would blame himself if anything happened to her.Basically his subconscious is pricking him because he knows his ex has suicidal tendancies and he feels guilty for breaking up with her IN CASE she does anything silly. The fact of the matter is... she's not HIS problem any more so he should drop the guilt trip totally.~Eve~
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