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writes:Our break up was just 2 weeks ago and she became involved with another guy within the first week. Every time I go to browse around on Facebook there are pictures of them together. It sucks when I can't even check my own updates without being bombarded with their "relationship."Now I've already accepted that she's gone and that I deserve someone who will treat me better, but its still hurtful to see how little I must have meant to her after years of loving her if she can move on so quickly...and I've been doing everything to move forward; been going to the gym every day, working on my class work, going out on the town with friends and roommates, playing music, reading, writing, and basically anything else I can think of to keep myself busy. But the feelings still creep up. In the last few weeks I've gone from missing her to feeling depressed and now I feel stuck in the "extremely pissed off" stage. Every time I think of her I think of how wrong she treated me and how if I meant so little to her after all the love I gave her, what that says about me as a person. I'm not looking for a quick solution; I've tried those. But rather, any advice you can give to help a guy get back on the right track? Thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2010): It says you have a big heart and you're a trusting person.. what she did shouldnt reflect back to you. if she moved on so fast yea it hurts like hell and you get angry but you just going through the motions..you only gave yourself two weeks to expect to feel different but i believe it gets worse before it gets better..but you will get past it..no matter how bad it hits, you will eventually get past it..you seem to be keeping yourself busy but no matter what you do your heart still has to go through what happened! and yea id be way angry if i couldnt chek my page without seeing my ex relationship in my face..delete her frm ur friends if u cant handle it right now..its nothin wrong if u cant handle it just knw eventually it wont matter no more and you will be bak to you..I wish i had a remedy for this love stuff but truth is TIME! is the only true cure for pain...i hope you feel better soon..
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2010): First delete her from your FB account and any of "her" freinds that you may have as mutual.
Go find a few hobbies outside of your home and stay away from the bar scene as drinking will only compound your problems and issues.
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