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If he likes me why doesn't he ask me out?

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Question - (27 November 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 27 November 2010)
A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Does he like me? I don't know what to say other than "salve". He tutors at the same room I tutor and I asked for help twice which he has done very enthusiastically and always laughs at my... Doubts. He's twenty. First time I ever saw him I made the mistake of asking the girl I tutor if she knew his age. She decided to call him to my table and ask. I didn't know what to do and got very flushed and wouldn't dare look at him. It was embarrassing. He was laughing and I don't know if that should ease me. Last time I saw him the kid he tutors decided to say I told him he was my boyfriend. He kept on saying I said and I'd deny it because of course I hadn't. I was even more flushed and embarrassed and I gave my back oh it was horrible. Again he was laughing. It's been three weeks because I've had to miss the class. It's once a week. I feel like when I go back it'll be I don't know different. That if he did like me he won't. I went to some jouvenile church meeting because I knew he attends and there was a paper to pass and he snatched it to be the one who gave it to me. He kept looking into my eyes and smiling and I did too for a long while until I adverted my gaze and took the paper forward to read it, he were both holding the paper. That means he likes me right? I'm..eighteen and I've never had a boyfriend. Not had a date with a guy I actually liked and it's even been two years since I have.

The paper thing was before what the boy said. The boy insident was the last thing that happened between us. I just wan to if he likes me and if he does why has he not asked me out? Me asking him is out of the question for it doesn't do me well when I am candid.

I would like to speak with him this Wednesday. Don't know what I could do to break the ice..nor approach him. Please, help me. I'm shy and make a fool out of myself and when I am nervous I speak too much and speak silly things!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2010):

Suggestion: hand him a sheet of paper with this on it:

Do you like me? Check one: __YES __NO

Personally, I would be thrilled to get a note like that...

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A female reader, starfairy United Kingdom +, writes (27 November 2010):

starfairy agony auntAsk him to go for a coffe, or a bite to eat :)

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