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writes:Hello there. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 months now, and we got into a little argument today and he almost broke up with me. But he didn't and we mended everything. I need help because now he's being all weird, and i know that happens a lot during relationships, but gosh, i really need advice on how to get him to stop acting weird and act the way he used to. I'm scared he just doesn't want to be with me. Or is it because the argument took place today and he needs time?
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reader, starfairy  +, writes (27 November 2010):
 Sometimes people just need time to cool off. If I've had an arguement with someone, I just want to be left alone after to get my head back together. Maybe he doesn't feel he said his bit though, if he's still being weird. Leave it a bit to let him cool down, then perhaps approach the subject again, ask him if he feels like he's had his say, ask him if you guys are ok now. Do you feel the situation was resolved?
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (27 November 2010):
 Weird how? What was the argument over?
It's normal for guys to take a day to cool off and just have their time to blow off some steam. Then they can come back and talk when they're ready. Especially if it was a major argument. Now if it was something minor then he doesn't need a day to collect himself.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (27 November 2010):
 This is far too unspecific. How exactly is he behaving?
Of course you need to give him another day or two to lick his wounds that are still aching from the argument which seems to have been almost cataclysmic.
I hope that helps.
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