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writes:thanks for the help last time guys and girls. it helped me alot. now then i need some serious help, or advice, or whatever. last night my gf and i were talking and then she said that she texted a bunch of different people which i knew and didnt care about because she doesnt anymore but i wouldnt of cared anyway, and one guy i didnt know from a town about 5 hours away. ive never met this guy and i figured out that she talked to him on facebook recently and she used to text him. so i got mad and then she did too, and asked me why i got mad when she talked to other guys or got texts period. i dont care who she texts and she has a gay friend that she texts and i couldnt care less if she texts him, but when i find out that she is talkin to a guy from a different town that i dont know then i get mad. i let her hang out with a few guys cuz shes in ffa with them and shes known them and been friends with them for a long time, and i personally know these guys. the other guy ive never met before. after i answered her she said she had to go and quit texting me about 30 minutes before her curfew was up. am i in the wrong here for being mad about that, and if i am how do i make it up to her and make her not mad at me again. any help would be greatly appreciated. thank you
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (27 November 2010):
 http://www.dearcupid.org/question/girlfriend-texting-my-best-friend.html
For our readers, and I knew you sounded familiar.
Now, you say she's texts a bunch of different people you knew but yet in your last post you got upset with her for texting your best friend.
Then in your post you say you don't care who she texts, but then again you're getting mad at her for texting this guy. This guy could very well be a friend.
Has your girlfriend ever given you a reason not to trust her? I'm trying to understand where these trust issues comes from. Do you see the pattern? You can't control who she text/talks to. She can text whomever she pleases. If you trust her then stop getting mad at her for texting these guys, you're going to end up driving her away with your insecurity. Unless she gave you a reason to not trust her, such as cheating or lying then give your girlfriend the benefit of the doubt. Call her up and apologize for getting mad, it was unnecessary. Then stop freaking out over her texting these friends who happen to be guys. Stick to what you say and actually don't care who she texts because you seem to care way too much.
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