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anonymous
writes: Hii...I am married and happy.I found a guy who is my close friend.We share couple of intimate topics.He is also married.We feel that we are getting attached and loving eachother.I too feel to spend the max time with him.though we never met just that seeing each other`s picture and talk or chat.Do u think this might cause problem in our marriage? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, DenimandLace44 +, writes (27 November 2010):
Yes... You are missing something in your own marriage or you wouldnt be doing that to start with. That makes you very vulnerable, and believe me this guy will seem to really get you.
You are on the brink of ruining your life. Stop now before it is too late.
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reader, Odds +, writes (27 November 2010):
It might. If your husband is not your primary source of emotional satisfaction, it's easy to convince yourself you've fallen out of love with him - or to do it for real, and you'd have only yourself to blame. It's "emotional cheating," and it puts the guy's marriage at risk, too.
Enjoy your friendship, but limit the topics. Anything you have not talked about with your husband is off-limits, and only discuss 2/3 of those topics.
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reader, mrvhappy +, writes (27 November 2010):
The short ans is YES!!
Why dont you spend that time with yr husband/family?
You are walking on dangerous ground otherwise
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