What to so when you think your boyfriend and your best friend might just have a thing?

A female age 30-35, *ee1317 writes:

well I feel like my boyfriend has lost interest in me.. we have been dating for a year now and i feel like he can't trust me. we broke up like a week ago and it was just to take a break but not see other people and just not see each other for a while so i guess we didn't really actually break up it was just to get away so we wouldn't fight as much. but then when we started talking i found out from my friend that she heard about my best friend and my ex starting to have a thing for each other i didn't know if it was true but then on facebook i saw some comments he wrote to her and he used words such as babe, baby girl, uhmm and things he would normally say to me i asked her about it and she said she did have a thing for him and they did start to like each other and i didn't no what to say i was speech less! we kept talking and she told me everything that they said and did and i felt like he used me just to get to her.like before this happened we all hung out and she and him would make eye contact and stuff but i just thought she was just looking at him to see if he was alright or something.. i don't no what to do he says he wants to get back together with me and forget her but i don't no what i should believe any more i need help is he lying or are they just trying to make me jealous? how can i stop being the jealous type towards him? is it normal? or am i just crazy like his friends say i am? what should i do?

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