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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hey, to cut straight to the point, in school i have a close circle of friends (we are all bisexual) and for the past five weeks two of them have been going out, we'll call them A and B, A being the female and B being the male, and I have been really close to "A" and "B" and i hate to say it but i have been really jealous of "B" because i have a really strong crush on "A", and just a few days ago "A" broke up with "B" and i found out that my other close friend in our group "C" (female) had asked out "A" and she had said yes, and truly i am finding it hard to keep my emotion under control because as well as liking "A" i also really like "C" and i dont know what to do, it is killing me on the inside and although i am obviously happy for them i have never ever felt envy like this and my like is starting to turn to hate, i know that sounds really horrible but its true! is there anything i can say to them to express my feelings and not make them feel weird? or should i just suffer in silence as i have been doing? Any help would be much obliged thanks x
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reader, Viajante  +, writes (28 November 2010):
Strong feelings in your close group of friends is a bad idea.
But don't worry too much about these feelings. It is a bitch to hear people telling you that you are young and shit, but it's true, you don't need to worry so much, experience these feelings and don't think it's the end of the world.
Maybe being upfront about it?
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reader, alice0110 +, writes (27 November 2010):
you are only young and in time you will learn to control your feelings. just continue being yourself around them and soon maybe they will realise that they like you too, but be careful having such strong feelings in your close group of friends
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