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writes:My boyfriend broke up with me last thursday right before thiis really awesome foot ball game. At the game there were a lot of cute guys there but for some reason I couldn't get my mind off of him. I got over him on saturday and ended going to this party that my friend dragged mme to... basically I meet this really cool guy and he asked me out to the movies on monday. Meanwhile after the breakup I was not sure if my ex had texted me to see if I was okay or not beccause I had lost my charger a few days before it died. Then I wrote a status on facebook like "Cant wait for the movies tonight 3" and he wrote a status like "im done" and I thought he was talking about being done with me but I didn't want to jump to any conclusions about anything. I think that he probably was mad that I was going to the movies with a guy and was jealous or he thought that I was ignoring his text messages.. Thanks Giving would have been our 1 month but we broke up like 5 days before. So I wrote a status like "Sorry if I haven't been answering texts, I just found my charger under my bed." but I know that he wont see that until tuesday when he comes back from newyork. So I wrote him a message, and said a bunch of cute stuff but my question is: Do you think I got over him too fast? Do you think he was jealous about me going ot to the movies? And do you think I should have waited to go out on a date?
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (27 November 2010):
 What's his problem, he's the one that broke up with you! You guys only went out for a month, there's no need to spend all weekend crying over a short lived relationship. Sweetie, I've gotten over guys in 24 hours! Good for you for moving on so quickly..There's no timeline you should give when you should start seeing someone else. It's your life you do what you want with it. Your ex is no longer a part of it, so what he says is irrelevant. He was just being jealous, wanting you to mope around over him for quite a while. No need for that, pay your ex no mind. He dumped you, remember?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (27 November 2010):
 Hi ok you werent even together a month so this was a very short relationship therefore no you didnt move on to soon, and he is the one that broke up with you therefore you are entitled to move on and go out with whatever guy you like. Am not sure if he was jelous or not its hard to tell, that status could have meant anything. But at the end of the day he is the one that broke up with you and you werent together that long anyway so go out and enjoy yourself. You are only young.
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