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writes: I've been going out with this girl for 2 months,and we see eachother every day,all the time...when were together I feel shes not having a good time,so I feel bored and I think I should let this go but when were apart I cant stop thinkin about her,I need to see her.I only love her when shes not with me,I have this urge to have her when shes not there,but when I see her I get confused...WHAT IS THIS? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2010): Your'e in lust with the idea - perhaps having someone to think about is better than noone. Close the door, so another can open.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2010): If you see each other everyday, and when you're together, you're bored, you most likely see each other too often, and too much. Try spending time apart, more than normal, hopefully the boredness will go away after spending quality time apart, if not, oh well.
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reader, iceboxheart +, writes (27 November 2010):
It sounds to me like you just want someone to be with, the idea of a relationship is much more appealing than the girl that you are actually with.
So maybe you should talk to her about what she is getting out of the relationship as much as what you are and wheather or not you are both happy.
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