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writes:OK here is the deal. I've been seeing my specialist doctor for over 2 years. From the moment I met him I found him very attractive but I never acted up on my attraction because I wanted to keep it strictly professional even though he would tell me how I have such a pretty smile. As time progressed I noticed how he would compliment me more and more, he stress the fact that he finds me highly attractive. He'll ask me personal questions as far as my love life. He became very some what affectionate towards me and started to notice a lot of things such as my hair, attire, make up and etc. To make the long story short he has giving me his personal # and has told me we should hang out. NOW I don't know what to do, I really like this guy but he also stated it'll be best to wait until I am no longer a patient of his. He tells me how I need a man that make over 150k a year to take care of me like I deserve to be taken care off. I'm a little intimidated because there is a great difference in number of years but I do like him a lot!!! What should I do?? I can't seem to get him off my mind!! He stresses how he wants to "keep in touch with me looooong" after our medical relationship is over. What should I do??? I really like this man but I'm so afraid. Why? IDK lol but I am!! Help! Am I just reading too much between the lines and he just being "fiendly" or does he really like me?Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, Loving25 +, writes (29 November 2010):
Loving25 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI have giving everything you said thought before. Trust me I have. Well I know he is single because we have a mutual friend that works in the same facility as he do. As far as the "transaction", I've been never known as goods for sale.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2010): I know the other aunts told u to go for it but what happens to professional courtesy from his side.
Basically he is telling u that he wants to have sex with u, wants to treat u perhaps like a high class 'madam', that he will provide the financial benefits and u provide the sexual benefits. Can u see the trade off here. How many other patients has he made this offer to? You or countless others. What is his intention? Just to have sex with u or something more meaningful?
What about his marital status? Let's not forget that Gramps will be in trouble with the Medical board if he is found to be crossing the line. Once he finishes with u, do u report him in spite?
What about you, any boyfriend lurking about? Can u live with yourself, getting this much older man to trade off sex for some nice presents. You know the word that is used for this type of transaction.
As I said the other 2 aunts have basically told u to lie flat on your back with your legs in the air. All of that is very well and good but before u start doing the dirty with Gramps perhaps u need to do your homework first.
Can I be so frank and ask what 'specialist doctor ' he is. Hanging out with the good doc is one thing, him being married/having a partner is another, him crossing professionalism is totally a different matter.
LoveGirl
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reader, Loving25 +, writes (28 November 2010):
Loving25 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys.. :)
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reader, Sissy 1992 +, writes (28 November 2010):
 Go for it i wish you luck... :D
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