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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi,Okay, i have been up all night. I had a party yesterday at my house. I invited lots of people. I am a very good host. Not to sound like bragging, i make people laugh, make them feel comfortable and even make them dance! There is a girl i met last year in a club, she was dancing beside me and messed with my hair and it was kool. She said i was handsome, but nothing ever developed in fact we became friends when i found out she would be living near me - she moved to the same road as me! Anyway, i have been displaying an interest towards her for a long time, sometimes i feel it returned at others not. I actually feel like she only calls me out when she wants to have a bit of fun and i'm that unquestioning fun guy! Anyway, at this party last night we were getting close; we were flirting, teasing each other, touching, joking, talking and hugging, i really thought it was going well. Now there was this German guy there and this is the only second time they've met. He is in most parts not really as attractive as me and he doesn't really have a personality, i mean he's really nice. all credit to him but as the night developed i saw her attention turn to him. At one point she asked him to come to the garden quite surruptiously and they went i followed like a dumb jealous buffoon but only made it like i wanted to have a ciggarette and sure enough they were there just messing around like were a few hours before!! Anyway, i knew by the end of the night i had lost her to this guy, and i am trying to figure out why. I've been helping her out so much and i've tried to be a good friend and neighbour. Some interest registered and my friends think i missed many opportunities. Anyway, right now i am confused, angry, jealous and damn right gutted. I just realised how much i liked her now. now i can't possibly be friends with her, not now so what should i do and i am 100% she invited this guy over for tea and they slept together. She normally texts me to thank me for such a good night but i didn't receive any texts!! aaarrrggggh HELP PLEASE!
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reader, starfairy +, writes (27 November 2010):
 It sounds like she was waiting for you to make the first move, or confirmation of your feelings for her. She didn't get it, so it sounds like she's moved on. Perhaps you should talk to her...After all, what have you got to lose?
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