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writes:hey im 20 and like this one grl... but i found out that all her friends are guys because she said they like to hang with her a lot more then girls do...and cant meet girl friends easy and also her best friend is a guy to which is her ex... someone that knows her thinks all her guy friends have a secret crush on her..y wld she say that??... she also says she has no idea if a guy friend likes her and hangs with her guy friends jus the two of them sometimes. i know of one guy friend who does like her and was mad she was talking to another guy while with her. she had no idea he liked her till someone else told her he was mad because they went basically on a date but she didnt think was a date-her and him alone goin somehwere. should i be worried and run far far away or date her anyway and not worry? she says she likes me a lot ... plus does not like any of the guys even if they like her. im afriad these guy who like her will get in the way you know? plus i wonder if she secketly likes the attenton......cheers.....
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reader, SinisterScribe  +, writes (27 November 2010):
 I was/am kind of the girl you like. I'm eighteen and... Ever since I am fourteen all my friends have been guys. I don't feel attracted to them, I just like to have fun with them... As a friend. They complement me and that's a plus. My best friend is a guy and we were inseparable in high school. Everyone would ask me if he was my boyfriend and I'd say, "no, he's my best friend, my boyfriend is in the university."
If you truly like her, then date her. Isn't that what dating is about? Getting to know one another and see how the relationship blooms?
So what if she likes the attention? Every one likes attention... Even if they deny it... They are secretly flattered because we like feeling liked. Tell me the lonely, depressed, kid wouldn't be surrounded by friend at least for an hour.
If the other guys like her... Which they probably do... You have to remember that she likes YOU. I suggest you go out with her.
"I'm afraid these guy who like her will get in the way you know?" Well, if they do get in the way, just ignore their jealousy. You'd be the one with her, not them. I think you are being paranoid over the other guys. And don't ask others around. Ask HER. Others may throw venom... Even if you think they are the most trustworthy. You do not know what they hold against her and...
I had a girl who disliked me in school because I enjoy to speak proper Italian and English rather than use slang and vulgarism. She'd tell everyone I was a snob and speak of me with a scowl. My best guy friend told me that was what intrigued him the most about me. The why she disliked me so much. Just ASK HER OUT.
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