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writes:i have a best friend and we like eachother but he has a girl friend and they keep breaking up and getting back togeather. one time recently they had broken up and i had gone to his house with frinds for a bond fire, and we started cuddling, and we feel asleep togeather, and the next day he got back togeather with his girlfriend. i dont know what to do. like is he using me? my auther question was what can i do to make him like me more than his girl frind now.
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reader, Bella555 +, writes (27 November 2010):
You can't make him like you more than his girlfriend, or anyone else for that matter. His loyalties seem to be to her, regardless of the revolving door they have for a relationship. Try backing off him a bit--stay friends, of course, but limit the cuddling, touching, etc. to the ways in which platonic friends might. Does he know you have feelings for him? You could try telling him, but that may backfire, as he's enjoying having a means to back up his relationship, i.e., you. So yes, he may be using you. Play it cool for awhile, see if he comes around romantically. If not, stay friends, and find someone who will treat you as his number one.
Best of luck to you.
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