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writes:Im having some problems in my relationship.Im only 15, and My boyfriend and i have been together 8-9 months now, but im a bit confused. At times i can feel like theres nothing in our relationship and im just not feeling the chemistry; even to the point where i dont know whether to break it off or not. Other times i feel really happy and i feel like he's the perfect one for me; he tells me he loves me, kisses me etc, makes me feel like (as rihanna says) "like im the only girl in the world"i dont know if its emotion or theres just nothing there anymore. Its got to a point where im down most of the time and our best friend gets along with him better than i do.Most of the time i doubt why im even with him, but i just feel stupid fo thinking like this. Im highly confused, my feelings are all over the place and i just feel like im leading him on sometimes. Help! Should i make it or break it? I feel like hes the one, but if keep having doubts and i do break it off, will i miss what i had?
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reader, BB_Sweetie  +, writes (28 November 2010):
 I am as well 15, this has happened to me before and actually I had broken up with him and To be honest, I've never been happier. Before I did this I felt exactly like you! The thing is he might be quite busy with other things and hasn't been spending time enough with you, try though, try to get close to him, try to be more in his life and see what's going on with him as well, tell him your frustrations and if he really loves you, he will indeed tell you and he will try harder, (I'm not saying he hasn't been), and anyway, Don't Do What I Did, I waited way too long! We had been together for 2 years and I felt like that for like 6 months! One thing for sure is, you have to talk to him because if not, these feelings will stay for quite some time, trust me, its not fun AT ALL! And no matter what you do, sadly, someone will feal hurt. Its not a great feeling but it is indeed the necessary step to make you more happy and who knows? You May find a guy just like him but better! I did, and I was 2 years with the other guy! And in fact I feal more for my current boyfriend than I have ever felt for anyone else, and you can find someone and feal like I did! (Me and my boyfriend have been together almost a year now) So try having a real honest talk with him and hear him out, if things keep on the way they are I'm sorry but you might need a break from this boy. We'll, I hope you do what will make you happy~ Good Luck~ from:-BB
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reader, goodcharlotte4life  +, writes (28 November 2010):
 hello, i'm also 15 and i was in the same problem as you. when me and my boyfriend got together everything at first was just perfect and amazing, you get feelings of butterflies and you feel like nothing can ruin it.. but then there comes a time after you've been dating that person long enough to where you are not sure if those feelings are still there and it will feel different, you will like he doesnt treat you the same, or you will feel that things are not working out,, during that time i realized that my relationship has lost its spark. we arguedd alot more and pretty much grew tired of each other, but over a period of time we tried spicing the relationship up by doing more things together and talking about how we felt. i remember telling my boyfriend that i felt unsure about our relationship because i felt that our relationship was getting old, he told me that he loves me and doesnt wanna lose me, so we worked things out, the thought of me leaving him scared him because he loves me. We have been together almost 5 months now(we dated before also), everything is going okay but we have other problems including his pill addiction, but still staying strong. advice- rebuild that spark, do something sweet, maybe a nice date. wish you the best of luck :)
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