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writes:Sorry this is going to be really long.......Me and my girlfriend recently broke up after 10 months of dating. In that time we have had a couple arguments and a couple fights. We went on a break about 3 months ago and she kissed another guy, then she came back to me. We broke up about 3 weeks ago and almost everyday we would text and she would tell me she loves me, then the next day she wouldnt want to speak to me. She told me she was flirting with other guys. I asked her if it was over for good and if there was any chance of getting back together, she said no, so I told her that I didnt want to talk to her and to leave me alone. The next day she cried at school and told my best mates girlfriend that she loved me and wanted me back. She came over to my house to get her stuff back off me and she cried and i told her i was still in love with her. she said that she wants to try again with me when i come back from holidays. Should I go back with her?? What should I say?? What should I do?? I still want to be with her and no other girls mean anything to me.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (17 June 2010):
 My advice (now I'm way removed from the dating scene-so take this with a grain of salt) would be to say nah, we don't mix well together and I don't need the head games so let's stay where we are for a year or two then look at the situation. Maybe by then some more mature thinking will have evolved in the two of you. Sorry that's probably not what you wanted to hear but that's just me I'm sensing you guys are real young and the relationship world is all pretty new and spooky so I'd be very careful of what you wish for. a rocy relationship rarely calms itself. I see a "bad moon rising" to quote some great lyrics of an old song. Best wishes
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reader, cindy 15  +, writes (17 June 2010):
 well i say if i was in your situation your girl friend seems to be sorry and regret in what she done and i think personally give her a chance.
you seem to deeply care for her.
id say give her a chance
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reader, beautifuldisaster0317  +, writes (17 June 2010):
If this is going on you probably shouldn't get back together with. She seems like she would be the type to cheat on you. If you are having so many fights, it wouldnt be such a good idea. There are so many ?fish in the sea~ If she wants you back then changes her mind and goes and flirts and kisses other guys, I suggest you dont get back together with her. I hope this helps.
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reader, tinkerbell** +, writes (17 June 2010):
Give it another go but make sure you both have a proper serious conversation on why you broke up in the first place and why you are arguing
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