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*rissy07
writes:why do i feel so empty most of the time? i work three days out of the week, which my husband drops me to work in the morning and a stay home mom the other four days. he gives me two hundred dollars spending money every week. we have a beautiful little girl three years old. but yet i'm so empty. my husband does not calls me maybe twice in a to say hello when he's at work. he leaves the house early when i'm home and when he comes home in the night he never have anything to say to me. we have sex maybe once a month, so far since the year started he has made two to three attemps in wanting to sex. he doesn't care to kiss me when he leaves in the morning or the night. he,s always around his friends, which i don't know when was the last i seen my friends. when we have sex it's not even a full two minute. h doesn't care to make me happy, what should i do? i'm always so sad and lonely. i sorround myself only whith him and his friends, if i say something he doesn't like he'll curse me out in front of everyone. why? where am i going wrong
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (17 June 2010):
 Get a grip, you are not going wrong. You may have depression(please see a doctor about it) Your husband is 'on edge" and acting foolish because he can't fix it (whatever it is) if he acts like a jackass it's not your fault. he just doesn;t understand what's going on in your head. that's not to say he's not wrong for his actions(no one deserves to be beliyytled in public) I'm not a doc but i've seen depression before and it sounds like you might qualify but don't worry,it's treaable and all will be fine- go see a doctor! good Luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2010): Lady,
You are a mother, and thats the toughest job in the world...you should be proud of yourself. As for the not feeling to good right now I would suggest some hobbies, an occasional visit to the spa, some new clothes, a lot of fun mom- daughter activities..anything that puts a smile back on your face.
Good Luck !
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reader, followtheblackrabbit  +, writes (17 June 2010):
 Hon, you're not doing wrong. You work, you take care of your beautiful little girl, and it seems like you try very hard to make this man happy...but, do you realize that he's being verbally abusive to you? He curses you out when he does't get his way and that's a sign of an abuser, a controller who needs to put down others. He doesn't care to satisfy you and isn't affectionate...there's something wrong here. Truly I would advise you to leave him, but I know that wouldnt be easy for you to do since you care for him obviously. So, sit down and have a talk with him, don't be accusing but be firm. Tell him you miss him and tell him that it hurts you when he curses...if that fails, see a marriage counselor. If that fails, leave him. Think of your little girl, do you want her growing up with an unhappy mom? Do you want her thinking its ok for men to curse at her because her daddy did it to her mommy? Hon, think of yourself. Be honest, do you truly want to feel like this anymore? Be honest.
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