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writes:I come to this point that I’m, looking for others people opinion. Here is my story.I met this guy at work about 2 years ago we start sleeping together, there is a difference in years between us (he is 29 I’m 38); he said thats not a problem for him. I’m very much in love with him (he said he loves me to) however he is telling me that he doesn't want a girlfriend ,he doesn't want to date me right now –and it will get serious when he is 30.,but that is not everything , he never really ask me out, he always wants to met for few minuies never for longer time usually after work, never on the weekends, he almost never answer my calls or text me back. Also at work he wants to keep it secret (he is not married I’m sure ). He also never invited me to his home (he claims that he has roommates . Even one time one of his (female friends) showed at work, and he was kissing her for goodbye, that really hurt me so badly, but I was able to forgive him. What should I do …..? I’m very tired of the whole situation …should I wait for him ….or should I walk away immediately and don’t waist my time any more.Nathaly
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reader, CruiserBill +, writes (17 June 2010):
This guy has zero respect for you. Find someone who actually cares for you as a person! Move on I say.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (17 June 2010):
You're being used left right and centre. I think you should just move on.
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (17 June 2010):
 http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-doesnt-want-a-girlfriend-so-am-i.html
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reader, welsh +, writes (17 June 2010):
I think he is just using you and his behavior seems a bit circumspect. His whole behavior of not msging/calling back, avoiding you on weekends is not a good thing. Speak to him openly about it/dump him before it gets worse for you.
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