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writes:i am in a long distance relationship with a man in istamnule turkey.he is younger than me but he grew on me .he says he loves me and wants to be with me forever and says i am his woman. but i dont know what to think the language barrier is stoping me from asking what i want to ask him i tryed a translator online but it made it worse .he wants to come see me in sept for two weeks but i have to flip the bill for passport and air fare .when i asked hin why only 2 weeks he said because he as his family there and he needs to work there. i love him but am scard of getting taken for a ride .i asked him if he was married there his ans was funny baby only to you .we talk every day and cam every day but i just dont know .i dont want to get hurt by him to me forever is not 2 weeks ,i just dont want to end up paying for his vacation here because he says he needs one thanks for any ans i can get i guess i just need some ont to talk to and listen to me i have no one here but my sis and she is jelous of him she told me so thanks again
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reader, Denise32  +, writes (18 June 2010):
 Lots of red flags. You must not pay his airfare to come visit. If he wants to see you badly enough, tell him to wait until he has the money to finance his trip himself.
This will show you the reality of his "wanting to be with you forever."
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2010): If he's Muslim (the majority of Turks are Muslims), then he is circumsized. Its a traditional thing for Muslims.
You really shouldn't give him money. If he really wants to come and see you, he can pay it.
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reader, StarburstGrin +, writes (18 June 2010):
 You can never tell, but be careful! Maybe suggest that you had something come up and see if he can wait and come another time... I personally would think that is way too soon to jump into something like that. My boyfriend and I have been together three years, taking it slow, and we are very happy because of it! Be careful with your heart make him wait on it.
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