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30-35,
anonymous
writes:So my ex boyfriend and I have been broken up for about 2 weeks. He is talking to this girl, I checked her FB profile out she has a son, has big boobs, big ass, she's like a muslim or something, she gets around, has a filthy mouth, she's fat. Why is he screwing her or even talking to her knowing she has a child. My real question is go boobs matter that much? I feel totally worthless because mine aren't exactly big, I'm a B34 but I'm so hurt inside I can't even explain it? So guys do boobs matter that much?
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reader, Becca64  +, writes (18 June 2010):
 Mine are the same size as yours :) i am so SO self conscious. But at the same time, ive kinda come to the conclusion that if i guy doesnt like them then he doesnt deserve them. if he cant take me for what I am then Idont want him anyway
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reader, cindy 15 +, writes (18 June 2010):
 as a girl my self boobs are not that much as a bigga deal i mean only a perverted selfminded guy would look at the boobs and nothing else. and this guy PLEASE you are way better then him move on girl! you can do so much better then him take you mind off him for a while with friends and you will get over him in a flash
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reader, TimmD +, writes (17 June 2010):
 Every guy is different. Some guys like legs, some like a woman's butt, some like boobs, it's just based on the specific guy. If I were you I wouldn't worry about whether or not your breasts are big enough, I'd worry about finding a guy that likes you for you. I know it sounds corny, but it's true.
Besides, your ex doesn't exactly sound like he's "the one that got away" or anything.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (17 June 2010):
To some, boobs are a big deal. But for the most part they don't matter. Only a closed minded man would be interested in breasts and nothing else.
As for this other guy, I think it's clear you're too good for him anyway. Take your time getting over him and throw yourself into friends, school and work and you'll start to get over him.
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