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My boyfriend is visiting dating and teen porn sites and its ruining our intimacy!

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Question - (17 June 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 17 June 2010)
A female South Africa age 41-50, *ngelaellard writes:

My bf does not think dating forums and porn has anything to do with me. I feel unsexy and not good enough. He cant stay of teenporn sites. I hate it it affects our sex life. He does not even try to satisfy me. He is using cipralex which makes it worse. The problem is I love him and dont want to leave.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (17 June 2010):

Honeypie agony auntDump him, what really are you hanging on too?

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (17 June 2010):

person12345 agony auntDating forums are not acceptable. The porn thing, he sounds addicted if he's not only no longer interested in sex. He sounds like he's so sucked into it he doesn't care about you at all. Dating sites are really over the line. Is he planning on cheating on you? Sounds like he might be. I know you love him, but do you really want to be in a relationship where you're the only one who feels that way?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2010):

if its a dating site leave - if its just porn then try watching it with him... it will throw him off balance if nothing else ;)

Porn is just a means to an end - most women just dont get as horny as men and if my man wanted to watch porn i'd let him - at least he's not hassling me when i need my beauty sleep lol

Try watching it with him - go shopping for sexy underwear -that always helps me when i dont feel sexy :) I think you probably aren't as intimate now as you used to be in the relationship and you're getting worried that he's choosing the internet over you - honey that is never going to be true - sex with someone else is ALWAYS better than doing it on your own (unless you have time restraints) but i wouldnt leave him - i'd try to embrace the porn and if you can't tell him to do it when you aren't around

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A male reader, Rico United States +, writes (17 June 2010):

U should forcefully tell him how u feel and how u r beening effected by what he is doing if u haven't already. Don't hang on to a bad relationship hoping to fix Cus then UT going to spend a good part of ur life being rejected by ur man. This is only going to make u Feel Wores!

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (17 June 2010):

If he's looking at teen porn sites and is on dating forums, then I'd say this is over. You might love him and not want to leave, but the more you allow yourself to be treated this way, the more you lose your own self respect. End it and find a guy who won't spend his time looking at young girls naked and dating forums. Dont' sit there and let him hurt you, because he really will continue this way. He's not going to change for you.

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