A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:How do I make him miss me so much it physically hurts and he'd do anything to be with me again? So here's the deal. I'm anxious. I had panic attacks. He didn't go out as he volunteered to look after me and I had emotional break down's a couple of years into our relationship and it all broke down. He gave me another chance a couple of weeks ago. Living together for a whole seven days going great until I ruined it. I had an emotional break down and he said I emotionally blackmailed him. Not good. He broke up with me. He ignored me until eventually he said he don't know if he love me no more but he did until about seven days ago. So he started talking to me and liking Facebook status's but I became all clingy again and he stopped again and then I changed status to 'in a relationship' to see what he'd say and he text asking about it, and then I said 'don't worry about it' and he said 'I'm not fussed. I'm just wondering' he never replies to my texts though and as soon as I told him reason and asked 'so you wouldn't be bothered?' he stopped replying again. Me and him had a special relationship and strong love. Almost three years and I miss him terribly what have I got to do to make him miss me and to reconnect with him bring those feelings back? What could I do on twitter or Facebook, which he's on often, to make him miss me or remember the good times? What can I do outside relationship? How do I fix things? thanks so much. I'm so desperate to feel him in my arms again. He's literally everything to me and I'm sinking into a deep hole of depression.
View related questions:
broke up, facebook, text Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, Elydiese +, writes (17 June 2010):
I think you should try to move on from this i know how hard it can be i'm in your position right now with the panic attacks but i have a disorder which causes that, i have seizures which are caused by stressful situations and have forgotten everything about my life apart from the last 3 months. So i do know how you feel. This guy stuck by you when you were going through your worst but you have to now learn to live with you and who you are and want to be, start afresh be independent. Do you know why you have these breakdowns? maybe someone can help you professionally i know it helps me x
A
male
reader, Sailing_bye  +, writes (17 June 2010):
 my advice to you is you must start fresh, whatever happened in the past with him is in the past and you must flush all of that out your system because "he said you emotionally blackmailed him." and since he's not replying to your texts he's pretty much upset with what you did and also might be weirded out by that. So i suggest to not do anything like that until you both have a mutual agreement about that. Just be patient take your time, flow with it without being so clingy control your urges and work with him.
...............................
|
