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Forgot to take my tampon out before sex, now it smells realy bad!

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Question - (17 June 2010) 14 Answers - (Newest, 22 June 2010)
A female Canada age 36-40, anonymous writes:

i have this problem well you see i had intercourse while there where a tampon inside me and it went really rought so i did manage to get it out but somehow it still feels like something is in there, it hurts very bad now everytime i want to have intercourse with my husband it doesnt matter how relaxed he gets me. And to make it worse i love to make love atleast 2times a day, now since that day i smell very bad down there its an awfull smell a few days ago when he made love it had a like rotten smell i were so ashamed is there anything that can take away that smell? i bath alot i shower alot i dont use sented stuff and i so badly want the smell to go away! Any ideas lady's? going to the docter cost alot and where i am there aint too many oh yeah i know it might sound funny but beleive me its not im scared of docters ect.

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (22 June 2010):

Tisha-1 agony auntYou're in Canada, right? http://www.cfsh.ca/Members/Find_a_member/default.aspx

You have to be your own health care advocate. No one else is going to be as diligent in finding health care for yourself.

You did NOT see a "lady doctor" in Canada, not a properly qualified one, anyway, if she didn't examine you.

If you are Canadian in Canada, I believe that you have the right to medical care without paying cash. So get yourself to the nearest clinic (from the center finder tool I provided above) and GET YOURSELF SEEN BY A PROPERLY QUALIFIED DOCTOR NOW. Having a bunch of amateur strangers on the internet give you folk remedies is a recipe for disaster. Stop taking silly chances with your health and get going.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2010):

Oh my GOD! Gurl, I'm so sorry this is happening to you, but I wish you the best! Oh God, this sounds very horrible... The best thing I could tell you is get a second or third opinion and never return to the first doctor again. How can she not examine you? Wow, that is just so messed up. Oh, please please seek professional help because what is happening to you sounds so so bad! And if you believe in Our Father, pray to Him as well!

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A female reader, Another Alice in Wonderland South Africa +, writes (22 June 2010):

Another Alice in Wonderland agony auntNo sweetie....nothing is going to help in the interim! This is serious, please seek medical help immediately! K? Now!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2010):

your symptoms may not have anything to do with the tampon having been left in; when you say it hurts a lot where do you mean? Stomach? Or somewhere else? If it's a pain in your cervical area then the Gynae is the best person to give you advice. Paracetamol is always a good place to start for pain relief, but you can usually ask your pharmacist for some free advice. If your urine is dark then you might want to consider drinking more- you should be drinking about two litres a day. Hopefully the Gynae doc will be able to enlighten you a bit more, even if it's just to reassure you that there's nothing wrong.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2010):

hi all im the one that asked the question, well you see i went to a lady doctor and told here the story she says that its just the flu and my stomic sounds a bit noisier than it should but its just the cold and i feel so sad because its feels like i paid so much money and she didnt do any test or nothing. Well i still have alot of pain and i made a appointment with a Gyno in 2weeks the doctor told me he would like to make alot of test aswell blood ect.. So hopefully he can help me. Its really hurting sorry to say it but my peepee is dark yellow and my stomic is upset. Is there anything you can suggest to help with this pain till i can see the other docter please?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2010):

Sounds like you have toxic shock syndrome

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (17 June 2010):

chigirl agony auntPlease do keep us updated on how it goes

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (17 June 2010):

chigirl agony auntDid you read about TSS? Read it again. And get yourself to an emergency appointment ASAP. Don't wait for a doctors appointment. Just go!

"Most associate TSS with the improper usage of tampons, which can cause immediate and life threatening illness when tampons are left in for too long."

"The symptoms of TSS develop rapidly. They include a FEVER usually higher than 102 degrees F. (38.88 degrees C.), a RASH covering the body, and severe VOMITING or DIARRHEA. One may also be very LIGHT-HEADED or feel FAINT, caused by a significant drop in blood pressure. The eyes, or the vagina may appear brightly red, and the person affected may show confusion, or have a severe headache.

The presence of several of these symptoms constitutes an emergency, particularly if one uses tampons"

EMERGENCY! GO RIGHT NOW TO AN EMERGENCY ROOM!

"Treatment required is immediate, usually intravenous (IV) antibiotics to stop the illness from spreading.

Failing to treat TSS can result in severe kidney infection and ultimately death; thus, signs of this illness should never be ignored"

http://www.wisegeek.com/what-are-symptoms-of-toxic-shock-syndrome-tss.htm

This is not me joking around with you. I am quite serious. By the sounds of it you could have TSS, and you NEED TO GO TO A DOCTOR! Explain to them your symptoms, and about the tampon, and they will know what to do.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2010):

1) were you really really drunk?!?!

2) this can cause Toxic Shock Syndrome which can KILL!! so

3) get to the doctors now, maybe A&E

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2010):

Thanks for the advise,i asked the question. Well you see these laste few weeks ive gotten sick flu, vomiting a little bit, feeling dizzy like i want to faint and its like freezing cold but i dress like summer clothes because i feel warm and also if i just pinch my stumic or any parts there its so painful its feels like someone ripped out my parts hope this bit of information will help more please

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (17 June 2010):

eyeswideopen agony auntDoctor may cost but this could cost you your life, get to the doctor, Missy!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2010):

the smell indicates infection. infection can cause sterility or even death. please read everything chigirl said and see a doctor. you cant play around with your body. good luck sweetheart, mal

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (17 June 2010):

Quit being ashamed and get to a doctor. I know I'm a man so know nothing about most of all this. But you might have an infection or something.

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (17 June 2010):

chigirl agony auntYou have to see a doctor. The smell is a good indication that you didn't get all of the tampon out. The smell probably comes from discard that has been sucked up in the tampon and does not get out. Leaving up inside of you can be lethal. You could die. Read up on Toxic Shock Syndrome: "Men, women and children can get toxic shock syndrome, for example following burns, boils, insect bites or infections after surgery. About half of the reported cases are linked to women who use tampons; the other half are not."

"TSS resulting from infection with the bacteria Staphylococcus aureus typically manifests in otherwise healthy individuals with high fever, accompanied by low blood pressure, malaise and confusion, which can rapidly progress to stupor, coma, and multi-organ failure."

You need to see your doctor. The information is described in the leaflet that comes with your tampons as well. Read it!

Read this if you can not find the leaflet: http://www.toxicshock.com/tssfacts/index.cfm

You need to take this seriously and get yourself to a doctor. You are scared, alright, but this is something you have to suck up and do even though.

Of course, you could also be fine once you get the leftover tampon out, but the longer you leave it there the more you are pushing your luck. Don't sit back and take the risk. Tell your husband what is going on and cut back on other expenses if going to a doctor is too expensive. Your health is more important than anything else you own. Sell things if you need to. TSS is lethal, and you are running a higher risk of getting it when you leave a tampon/parts of a tampon inside of yourself for this long. I'd rather you went to a doctor and found out you are fine, than to not go and have it reveal things were not fine.

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