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writes:i am a young lad an iv always believed i am straight ive slept with quite a few girls an never really questioned my sexuality until the last year or so. it started when i was told by a friend about his girlfriend slipping a finger up his bum during foreplay an i got curios so i tried it myself an really enjoyed it an still do it from time to time.so then i started wondering could i be gay because i enjoy it so i tried watching gay porn and ladyboy and found it very arrousing an still watch it as well as strait porn. i never really found men attractive i just liked watching them have sex but recntly i have started lookin out for good looking men and lookin on internet sites for gay men and think it would be a good experience and would clear this problem if i was to have a sexual experience with a man.what do u think am i gay or is it more of a fetish?
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reader, maxxie  +, writes (26 June 2010):
 you could talk to a girl about wanting stimulation there, get a kinky, open minded girl. i think its normal and if you want to try sex with guys, go ahead.
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reader, Jeff8  +, writes (23 June 2010):
" i like anal stimulation and it could be awkward getting a girl to do it"--keep it up and I'm pretty sure you'll discover a whole bunch of other fun stuff that is even more awkward getting a girl to do! There are lots of guys out there who would be only too happy to oblige your new fetish! The Romans said it's variety that makes life beautiful so why settle for vanilla when you've got a whole ice cream parlor to choose from? Forget the labels. Just keep on looking for your mojo and When you find it, WORK IT!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2010): why dont you try things with a man and see for yourself :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks guys that really helped its good to be able to talk to ppl about this and i am pretty sure i am gonna giv it a try at the end of the day i like anal stimulation and it could be awkward getting a girl to do it x
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2010): If you find men a sexual turn-on, you should TOTALLY go for it!!! Why on earth not? I can't see any good reason not to.
Good luck, stay safe, and have fun.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2010): firstly, i'd like to say even if you are a homosexual, please do not be ashamed. It isn't a disease, it is a feeling caused by the heart and physical body.
I am just like you, but, i like the way women look when they are intimate together. But that doesn't mean i am gay. It means i may have a slight liking/fetish for lesbian action! lol. I'm 19 and i have a long term boyfriend, and i am happy with our sexual relationship, and even i sometimes look at women in the street and comment on their features and boobies!
Bisexual is a very vague and uncertain word, so i wouldn't use it to describe you.
Only you can decide what sex you favor. Men or Women? or both? lol. It really doesn't matter. But the sooner you find out for yourself, the less worried you will be. trust me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2010): I wouldn't suggest that you're gay but possibly bicurious. A lit if men enjoy anal stimulation because of the prostate being there, leading to extra stimulation for some men. Getting aroused by gay / ladyboy porn is am indication to bicuriousity. However, if you feel like experiencing with another man to have better understanding of your true sexuality go for it, but if you did that make sure to have protected sex. You don't need a nasty infection.
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reader, Kama  +, writes (17 June 2010):
 You sound bi to me. The finger in the bum don't mean your bi, but the other things you describe certainly lean in that direction. Have fun be safe my man
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reader, happy140 +, writes (17 June 2010):
 Do not let anyone say you are gay! To avoid such stupid comments-keep your sex life private-99% of men say they don't masturbate-liars-I too enjoy watching porn (just amateurs though-seems more like caring sex then the stupid sound track crap-As hung up as we men are on our organ size it is no wonder we love to look at another mans penis (of course we would never say that to anyone) is mine big enough, is his fatter, does mine look different, is his technique better, is mine the monster my girlfriend says, etc. The is nothing wrong with healthy sexually active men (or women) comparing ourselves. The finger thing, heck that is where you are prostate is hence you get a sexual feeling outside your body AND inside. Acting on your desire to try men, while isn’t practiced by every male sometimes we need to do that to ensure we don’t spend the rest of our lives wondering why we didn’t or why we should-Always remember to be safe and if you try something like that YOU KNOW your friends would never understand, so don’t discuss it with them-you will be label a homosexual if they even remotely think you want to taste another man-so just don’t go there. Find out and when you return you will not be spending the rest of your life “what if”
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reader, person12345 +, writes (17 June 2010):
 Lots of men like anal sex or fingering or just anal anything. But due to the fact that it's typically a gay male thing, most guys don't ask for it or talk about it at the risk of being called gay. Lots of straight men watch shemale or gay porn and it doesn't make them gay. I wouldn't worry about a label, gay, straight, whatever. No one can tell you if you are or aren't gay, but why not go ahead and experiment with a man? I can't imagine any harm from it! Could be fun. Just be sure to use protection.
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