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writes:ive used this site many times and i know if anybody can help me with my problem its the dedicated people on this sit. ok so here it is ive been going out with my g-f for nearly 3 years and i love her to peices. but for the last year it seems all we do is fight over the dumbest things. plus shes always pretends to dump me then then says just kidding. and i tell her time after time to stop because it hurts my feelings but she keeps doing it. we have the occasonally good day but not often. and i never have time to my fiends or family she always wants me to come over. and whenever i do go over i feel like her personal slave i cook for her clean up after her and get little to no appreciation for anything i do. but when i do something wrong shell often bitch at me. and another thing it could be another question but ill add it to this one. about 4-5 months ago she whent to her sisters dorm in a university. her sister and her firends went to this guys dorm to party. well from what my g-f says is she drank sooo much she passed out. her sister tried to wake her up but she wouldnt. so she left her there (the guy was a close friend of hers and promised to watch over her) well my g-f started to regain consousness and he was trying to undo her pants she said no then he stopped said that hell sleep in the other room she said no stay and the cuddled the rest of the night. i saw her convo with the guy on facebook aparently thats what happend i dunno. and i dont know what to do about that its been a wile so i dont know how to bring it up again or even if i should. im just so confused and wonder is love a good enough reason to stay together i know she loves me too i just dont know what to do anymore
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reader, ShelbyS01201  +, writes (17 June 2010):
 From what you have explained, it sounds like this woman is intentionally using you. It sounds to me that you are her personal slave, and she thinks that she can treat you unfairly with no guilt at all inside. It's what is small in the beginning that can sabotage your relationship and end it with hard feelings. My advice is to talk to her and explain what you've said here. If she keeps on bothering you like this, end it completely and find someone who will respect you and your feelings.
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