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*plove
writes:I have just broken up from a long relationship and was not intending to meet any one. However whilst dancing in a club and a bit tipsy I met a guy. I flirted with him and refrained from giving him my contact details and name, likewise he did the same as he is very cautious due to the nature of his job.Anyway, he eventually passed his name card to me. I left the club telling him I will email him. He followed me out of the club leaving his friends and after a while we kissed and made out. It carried on more than an hour whilst we walked thru the city. Kissing every now and then. As I kept on teasing him and not telling him my name we still ended up sitting down and kissed. During which his breath got heavier and although I kept saying I had to go I was very attracted to him and could not have left him. During the kissing I did mention to him about probably I couldnt go is I found him very attractive, and he admits it too.He did ask me to go home with him and spend the night with him as he was due to fly out of town the next day. Nonetheless I had to go home as it was 3:30am and I just was not prepared to spend the night with him.After I teased him a bit, I got into a cab (i think he thought i wasnt going to leave), and then he opened the cab door and reminded me to write to him. Even the cab driver freaked out was worried that I didnt know him with the fear of being attacked. He apologized to the cab driver. Also he sent me some blow kisses.As it was his office email, I only sent him a very brief email on my email address and number without any emotions and feelings. Is that wrong? I don't think is right to flirt in office email addresses?- It's been 2 days and he has not replied my mail, does he like me or he is just a player?- By me holding back and not spending the night with him on the first night is it bad? Would the guy value that the girl actually holds back?- He is back in town end of this weekend, should I write him another email about catching up? As I do feel bad that the whole night I have been teasing him, he mentioned that is what kept it very interesting and challenging for him.
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reader, rplove +, writes (18 June 2010):
rplove is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey btw he has written back!!!!! I asked him whether he will be interested to catch up.. unfortunately with his flights he wont be able to meet this week but the week after next...... well let's see what happens
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reader, rplove +, writes (18 June 2010):
rplove is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI guess is true...i flirted .. he flirted..... i have written to him to see if he is up for catching up over dinner so we can meet each other over a normal conversation.... let's see if he writes back. If he doesnt, c'est la vie!
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (17 June 2010):
 I would send him another e-mail when he gets back, just a short and sweet one, then...... the ball is in his court. IF he is interested as well he will contact you, if not.. Well then you had yourself a little fling is all.
Good luck!
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (17 June 2010):
 Sounds just like a brief liason. Your reading way too much into it (as typically women do). So you flirted and teased a little...he flirted and teased a little...it happens.
By all means e-mail him again when he is back in town. Just a friendly 'hello' would be cool. If he replies...GREAT!!! If he doesn't reply...then just forget him and move on.
Best of luck and I hope you hear from him.
AE x
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