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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I dumped my boyfriend about 2 weeks ago because he lied a lot and there was a lot I didn't know but would find out. I didn't hear from him for about a week, I saw him one day when I drove by obviously he saw me too because he texted me telling me that he wasn't going to argue with me all weekend so he ignored me. I ignored that text, 20 min later I get a new text saying I wanted a weekend away our relationship was going to shit. I ignored him, he sent another text and hour and a half later and said I just thought I would tell you that...I got home by the way today also. He was at the beach without me, took his best friend when he knew I wanted to go. So I look at his facebook and see this chick on there obviously he's talking to her from the comments and said when she texts him it makes him cum. Okay I can honestly say I have a lot to offer, I have a good job, I'm young still only 20, I was a good girlfriend and loved him with everything I have. He lied to me cheated, my heart is completely torn apart, I feel worthless, I am depressed. Is it normal for me to feel this way over a guy who didn't treat me right in the first place? I feel like I'm never going to find another who I feel love for. This was my first serious relationship. I don't want to see him happy it would crush me.
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reader, ctds001  +, writes (17 June 2010):
Hey honey,
Yes it is cpmpletely normal to feel crushed when someone has not treated you right, even though you have done everything in your power to keep them happy.
Please concentrate on your positive points, because a real man is just waiting to find a good woman like you.
Don't settle for 2nd best like your Ex, he really doesn't deserve a nice girl like you. He has lots of growing up to do, so believe me he will not become prince charming for anyone soon.
Just concentrate on yourself and keep your head up high.
Good luck x
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