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writes:two months into a new relationship my friend started texting her old boyfriend asking to just be friends, he kept saying that he 'missed the sex life they had' my friend replyed saying that it use to be good, he took this as she wanted sex, showed up at her house and, even when she said no, he took advantage of her (so she says). this happened over 6months ago but her crazyyyy EX boyfriend said , randomly over IM, that he was going to tell her current guy about what happened (because he asked her for sex a few weeks ago and she said no ) and show him these messages ( which will have been taken totaly out of context). she is scared that her current guy is going to believe that she wanted this to happen. what should she do? should she tell him first? and do you think he will really tell?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2010): Please, your friend "let her ex take advantage of her sexually" after she sexted him? She is being blackmailed and now she is trying to figure out how to obsolve herself from responsibility for her very own actions. She texted her ex because she wanted to keep him "interested" in her or as a back up if this current BF did not work out. In short, she's a liar....
Stay out of it, don't offer an opinion or suggestion as to what to so or you will be blamed by this take no responsibility immature drama queen. I am sure she is a fun friend, just be thankful you aren't dating her.
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reader, ShelbyS01201 +, writes (17 June 2010):
 This situation can be very confusing if it isn't dealt with the right way. The worst possible thing she can do is to just sit it out and chew on her nails waiting for her EX to break it to her current guy. She must go to her current boyfriend and explain to him that she is frightened by her EX who misses their "old love life." If she is truly afraid, then her boyfriend is sure to understand that she wants nothing more with him. She needs to tell him that her relationship with her EX is over and done, and that she is happy where she is at. She musn't plead to her EX not to show her current guy; it will only provide him with the satisfaction of winning. He only wants to split her up from her boyfriend so that she will be with him.
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