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Stuck in a love triangle, what should I do?

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Question - (17 June 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 18 June 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, *ightgurl writes:

i have this huge crush on this guy im 14 hes 16 i practicly love him i jus met hiw this year and he keeps telling me he wants to hang i want to but idk if my parents will aprove and there is another isue he has a girl friend which he loves but is in foster care and she wants to kill me we have almost kissed on several ocasions but we stoped ourselves its buggin me cuz he likes me and has told me he wants to kiss me should i kiss him anyway???

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A female reader, nightgurl United States +, writes (18 June 2010):

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nightgurl agony aunti def dont want to b caught wit him in a public place she already dosent like me i could barly say hi to him in the halls wit out getting the LOOK and he would get in trouble wit her but thanx

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A male reader, Rico United States +, writes (18 June 2010):

So I have mixed feelings about telling his girl friends. If I was in ur position I would keep it to my self only because of the fact that girls tend blow things out of portion fast. Now don't hate Cus I sed this.lol so for right now try to control how much alone time u spend with this guy.

If he happens to break up with his girl then hope all the best for u, if he doesn't well then try to be only friends.

Hope this answers ur questions

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A female reader, nightgurl United States +, writes (17 June 2010):

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nightgurl agony aunti get wat ur saying about the kissin part and thanx but wat if he kisses me idk if i would have enough will power to pull away should i tell his gf and get him in trouble or keep it to myself??? and ill try that wit my parents thanx

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A female reader, Auntie E United States +, writes (17 June 2010):

Auntie E agony auntNo! I would not kiss him until he is officially broken up with his girlfriend! If he "loves" her then why is he wanting to kiss you? It could be that he feels sorry for her because she is in foster care. That being said - make it clear that yes you are interested but that he has to be free and clear of his other relationship first. As for your parents - do this first: Tell him if he wants to hang out with you (which may lead to kissing). This is a sure fire way to find out if a guy is really and truly interested in you as a person. If he agrees you have half the problem solved. Next go directly to your parents and tell them you have a friend who is a boy who wants to come to the house and see you - is that ok with them? Be straight forward with them. That is always the best approach. Good luck.

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A male reader, Rico United States +, writes (17 June 2010):

U have to ask ur self would u want ur boy friend kissing another girl. if he truly likes u he would brake up with his girl first!

He has to figure out his priorities or some one will be hurt!

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