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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello all. I don't really know how to start but a while ago I fell in love with a girl. But: she is a whole lot younger than I (12 or something) and I'm 16. And then I'm really shy so I haven't really talked to her. (At all, actually.) And I just love her! If there only was a way to let her know. I don't know her number, email or any other address (she lives in a kind of special place but I'm not going to explain more) so that's it. The only way I could think of would be to just go and talk to her, but now I'm going to mention my shyness again.I have "gazed" at her (as many others would also do) and sometimes she has looked back, but I have no idea what she thinks. I'm a bit worried if she'd misunderstand something, hate or be scared of me if I told her.I could also tell another (female) friend of mine who knows that girl 100% better than me but she could also understand something wrong. Or should I just tell? (but again: how?)The little girl is so lovely and sweet that I would never even want to leave her. That's why I'm asking for advice.Ps. Note that I don't want to be called a paedophile. That would be false and thus insulting.Pps. This is translated from another language and kind of cross-posting, but advice is what I really need now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2010): She has a different perspective on life than you do and is still a girl. You, on the other hand, are becoming a man. You would get along so much better with a girl your age. Keep looking and you'll find a suitable girl soon enough. (Living in a "special place" doesn't sound like a good thing) Take care and good luck! :)
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reader, ctds001  +, writes (17 June 2010):
Honey,
This girl is a child and you need a teenage girlfriend for yourself.
She is not corresponding with you because like most 12 years olds finding a 16 year old boyfriend is not on her mind.
Please try your hardest to forget about this child and find someone your own age.
When she is over 16 and IF you feel the same then you maybe able to talk to her and see if she feels the same.
Good luck x
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