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writes: Im 15 and My parents don't like the guy i talk to. He's 17, has a job and on his way to High school diploma.I dont know any one. I literally have 2 friends around my age. One girl(16), one guy (17). But this guy is my only guy friend whome i happen to have a huge crush on. We are secretly dating though.So you know, it is LDR. I've know him for 5 years and theres nothing wrong with him. He would put his life in danger to save some one. He isnt the smartest guy around but he makes me laugh and the world feels right when i talk to him...I've bragged to my parents that he has a job, finishing school. Yadda yadda. Comparing that to my sisters choice of guys...no job, no liscens, didnot fishing school. Thats pretty dang good wouldnt you say?I mean why cant i have some one i love and care for and my parents be happy for me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI've been told by other people i act like im over 18 but i know for a fact i dont. I have had my miss haps with my parents, we dont get a long that well.I guess most dont right? They were fine with him an i talking before we started texting. We dont do sexting or even anything close.
My best girl friend is extremely happy for me because she and i are going through the same thing.Being at home 24/7, pretty much feel like we have no life. So yeah she gets it. But i feel like my parents would rather have me spend more time tending to their needs then my own. Im always doing what they ask, i clean the house on a daily basis and watch the little kids for them.
I would love to be able to actually text my secret love without "who are talking to" "what are talking about" of course i always tell them the truth. I have to, i dont want to lose my cell phone. I cant even call him just to say Hi without "why are you on the phone".
Im freaking homeschooled for gods sake, let me have my time to talk to friends! y'know? I have literally cried myself to sleep because i feel so lonely, but i dont think my parents understand that...
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reader, skinsfan21  +, writes (11 December 2010):
i think your problem might be that your parents still see you and treat you like a kid. My parents used to be really strict with me until i got a job and started acting responsible. Remember, if you act like an adult then people will treat you like an adult. Make mature choices around your parents and talk to them and convince them that the guy you love is a good guy and is right for you.
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