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writes:How do i get over my ex?please understand she was my bestfriend, my gf, my everything.We talked 24/7, we were always texting so its very difficult for me because since we were always together.We had everything set, everything planned. It was a very serious relationship, We went out for about 3 years.We use to spend countless hours crying together for no reason just happiness, I wouldnt know why i would cry but it would feel so good.I made some mistakes in our relationships but honestly it was nothing to end a relationship like ours.She broke up with me about a month ago, She tells me she loves me but she cant be with me.Can someone please tell me how do i get over her?I think about her everyday and its killing me inside to know shes already meeting new people.
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reader, FreedomIsMyPassion +, writes (13 December 2010):
Are you sure you want to get over her? Or do you want her back? Month is not long time ago, And I think she is just playing hard to get. Us girls sometimes we are playing it cool, but deep inside we want the love back
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reader, Merilee  +, writes (11 December 2010):
You need to invest this energy into yourself. Stop thinking of what shes doing, and start concentrating on yourself. What do you like to do ? Start with a hobby, hang out with friends if you dont feel like being alone, hop on the xbox/ps3 or w/e and do some online stuff .. just get busy.
It will take time to heal, and you have to give yourself this time.
I dated a guy for 3 years, and when we broke up, it was 4 months before I stopped going home everynight to cry. I got a part time job, on top of my full time one, made new friends, started going out, and a year later, he came back for me. But I was over him by then, I had moved on, I liked my life, I liked what I was doing, I was truly happy.
This girl has chosen for you not to be in her life anymore, and as hard as it is, you have to move on with yours aswell.
Good luck
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