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writes:Okay so, i moved to a new school and never planned to get in such a deep degrassi style relationship but.. when i met this girl i felt like it was like real movie falling in love shit. And we always got along and we were always together. we've been together for almost 9 monthsBut now shes always with this one guy who loves her and she tells me. they have been friends since they were little and hes got a car and they always drive around. I don't know if hes trying to break us apart or if hes telling the truth but he's told me that she cheated on me with him many times. by this point i'm pissed i'm really thinking about knocking this guy out, but i feel like i cant do nothing because he knew her longer then i did.But anyways.. on Facebook i looked on her profile and her relationship status was set to his name. i called her and she said he "hacked" me and she didn't know how he knew her password and now she wont change it back to us together because it will make him bitch at her so now her relationship status is just "In a relationship" . She doesn't talk to me at school shes always with him. even after all the things he does.. and Not only that but everybody at school tells me shes cheating on me. and when i say everybody i literally mean everybody but her girl friends. most of the time these people are too scared to tell me so they tell my cousin it and he tells me. Ive even seen text messages on her phone with him saying "I love you baby" and she said "I love you too" i asked her about it and she said were just friends.. She says that i'm the only one and she loves me. Really i'm tired of all this and i do love her and i do want to be with her forever.. i just don't know what to do anymore.. and theres so many girls that want me and she gets mad if they even talk to me? does that make sense to you guys? theres way more little stuff this is all the big stuff to the story..i just really need help
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (11 December 2010):
 It sounds to me like your girlfriend is playing you for a fool and you are letting her. Everyone is telling you like it is that she is cheating on you, its obvious that she cares more about this guy's feelings than yours. I think you know deep down that she wants this other guy, sounds to me like you are her back up plan. Dont let anyone treat you like a fool. I think you need to end this relationship and move on in your life.
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (11 December 2010):
 I love Degrassi!
Well dear, when everyone is telling you she's cheating on you, that means she is. Of course her girl friends aren't going to tell you she's cheating on you, they're going to protect their friend.
-Signs she's cheating on you-
1. She's always with this other dude.
2. She told you, that he tells her he loves her.
3. He's even told you she's cheating on you with him.
4. Her FB says "In a relationship with him" when it should say you.
5. She won't change it back, because he will bitch at her. What the hell does his opinion matter? He's not her boyfriend. (But from your post it sounds like he is)
6. She doesn't talk to you at school.
7. They exchange texts telling each other they love one another.
Are you sure she's going out with you? It really doesn't sound like she is. If you're tired of the way she treats you (which is like crap) then I suggest you tell your cheating girlfriend it's over. In fact, it already sounds like it's over. Stop letting her play you for a fool. Sorry buddy, but move on.
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