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female
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30-35,
*catty1220
writes: we dated for almost 6 months and broke up because of a misunderstanding in which I told him something a friend said and later on I found out my friend had lied but my ex didn't believe they had lied he just wanted to blame me. after about 2 weeks of being apart the both of us and some friends were hanging out and I was told by one of my friends that he was asking about me and then later on that night he text me and said he had a great time and I later found out he only sent that message to me. when my ex and I broke up he originally blocked my number and didn't give me a reason why and it stayed blocked for almost the whole month we have been broken up. We go to the same church and I have been showing him that i'm happy without him (of course i'm not) and that i'm not the same girl he dated, anyways, last sunday he text me and said" your number is unblocked from mine so u can text me if u ever have anything interesting to say lol" and I just said "K" and then on Sunday afternoon he text me again and said "hey watz up" and I was trying to be nice and make him laugh so I said I was watching the Wizard Of Oz with my pet bunny, he laughed and said "well u do that and in the mean time i'm gonna go to bed...ttyl" so I thought that was the end of our conversation but then he called me at 11 O'clock that night and said " we had a good relationship but I (he) sat back and watched it all go to waste" and " I know we have been picking at each other a lot here recently and I was jw can we be friends?" and I didn't say anything back and he raised his voice and said " SO SILENCE IS WHAT I GET!!" and I said well what do you want me to say? and he said yes would be nice ,so I said ok and then we hung up.then he text me the following tuesday and just said hey and I told him I was in class and he said "oh yeah I forgot" but when he was mad at me right after the break up he knew exactly when my classes where because he wouldn't come around my house at that time (that's what he told my brother, He and my brother are really good friends) anyway, so I told him I would text him after I got out of class and when I got home I text him back and he asked me how I was doing and then he said " can I ask you a question?" I said ok and he said " did I ever make you feel pressured to do anything while we were dating?" and I told him that was the past and I didn't want to talk about that (I bought the magic of making up ebook and that's what it said to do) and he said oh sorry my bad and then we ended the conversation.... then YET AGAIN he text me and we were talking about heaven only knows what and for some reason he called me a fibber, so of course I ended the conversation (in a polite way) and then he started texting again and he said his mom wanted me to go to a ladies meeting with her and she came and picked me up and he was with her and he talked to me once or twice and I answered him back but when we dropped him off he said "thanks for talking to me" but he was being sarcastic then later he text me and said I was ignoring him (do you notice the attitude changes??) so at the meeting I was talking to his mom and I told her about him saying I was a fibber and I asked if she knew why and she said he was probably kidding. Later on that night he text me and said "sorry for calling you a fibber" and I told him it was ok and then he text me again after about a hour had passed and said he missed me then when I acted like I didn't like him anymore he covered it by saying he meant like as friends and then he started asking me about this guy we go to church with and said we would make a cute couple and just to see what he would say I said yeah he said the same thing and he said who? John? he said you would? then his mom text me and said what did you say to _____ (my ex) what ever you said hit a nerve and I told him no he has a gf and he said oh so then who said that? and I told him nobody said it and his mom told me the whole time he was texting me he was freaking out and he text me back and said " oh ok well I was jw anyway it doesn't matter who you date just as long as you're happy and I told him I was and he said ok well I g2g and that was it.I still like him alot and I want him back. does he still like me?
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (11 December 2010):
Yes he still likes you, and if you still like him and want to get back with him then why are you playing hard to get and pretending to him that he doesnt matter to you anymore? If you carry on with that behavior then he will give up and let you go. Therefore start being more friendly with him tell him you miss him and see were it goes from there.
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