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writes:A couple of months ago I met a girl who works at the Dairy Queen up the block from my house. I'd go once every week around the same time and she'd be there to serve me my blizzard. She made them the best for me after a few visits and they never let down. She'd always get messy making them and when she'd hand the blizzard to me the chocolate on her hand would get stuck to mine and I'd laugh and she would say she was sorry. She's VERY attractive and I found myself thinking about her while I was with my ex-girlfriend. Conversation never went beyond, "What can I get you?". But after a while we started to greet each other with knowing smiles. Once I waved bye to her and she did a double take and smiled back at me. As summer rolled in, I stopped going routinely and instead focused on preparing for a trip I was to make with my ex-girlfriend. One day, I saw "DQ Girl" on the train going to the same place I was. The whole time we would just periodically glance at each other longer than a person normally would glance. But when we got off the train we went our separate directions.After returning from my trip, I broke up with my girlfriend and I got a job and had a late store meeting one night. On my way home I got on the train and, lo and behold, there she was. Her hair seemed longer, wavy, and she was still beautiful. When I got on the train she was just staring at me with these big brown eyes. I'm sure she recognized me, thus the stare being so intense, but I played dumb. I sat down in my seat and felt eyes on my back, I glanced over my shoulder and she was still looking at me. I turned around to put my headphones in and all of a sudden she's talking obnoxiously loud on the phone to a friend. The train pulls up to her stop, she gets up and faces the door. She flips her hair, circles her head around the frame of the door and stares right into my eyes, coyly, giving a little smile, for what seems like a longer than normal time to stare at someone. I copy her actions. The doors open and she walks off the train.It's been three days since this event and I can't get her off my mind. I keep thinking that I should've initiated some sort of conversation and I even contemplated it while sitting in my seat, but nothing happened. And now I can't get her out of my head and I don't know when I'm gonna see her again, or if I even will, and it's killing me! My question is did I miss out on something potentially fruitful, do you think? I have a major crush on this enigma right now. Was I a fool for not making any moves even if it resulted in rejection?Thoughts?
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reader, FreedomIsMyPassion +, writes (13 December 2010):
Dude, go for it. At least give her some sign too?
You will never know until you try right?
Best of luck! ;)
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