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writes: hii guys :)i'm having a problem :$there's this guy in my class that i'm in love with since I met him (half a year ago) and a couple of days ago, he asked me to be his girlfriend and we're togther :D:D my problem is quite silly actually, but before we were together, we used to talk a lot and laugh etc and now we haven't talked since he asked me :$ our class is following the whole thing and they keep telling me to hug him etc but I dont dare to :$ also, i'm afraid he'll push me away or something... what to do? in a couple of days, we're having christmas holiday so I won't see him for 2 weeks :(
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reader, GAH  +, writes (11 December 2010):
Well its alright. Reading makes me think back to the first time me and my boyfriend meet each other. Me and my boyfriend has been dating for 4 years now. Well first of all. He's shy. They say they are never shy but the truth is when they are around you they get so nervous that they say nothing. The are afraid you might not like them. Me and him first time went out was that we didn't talk at all!! I'm so serious about that. We didn't talk at all. I thought he was just fooling around with me. At the end of the day I asked him "Do you just want to break up with me?" He was like "WHAT!?!" I told him "Well you seem like your not having fun and you dont talk to me at all." He said "Well thats because I'm so scared you might not want to talk. Also I get really nervous around you. . ." I started to laugh and hugged him. I said to him "I'm glad you told me that." You should just talk to him to make him fee more comfortable! He's really nervous. You got a guy who is very shy. Make him know you more and talk to him about things you would usually talk about. The only thing is that. Don't go fast on realtionships. Never have sex girl. Sex isn't the right answer. I was about to do it with my boyfriend until i thought about it. I was like no. This is way too quick. I feel like trash! He uses me then throws me away like trash. No way! So I never had sex and never until I'm married! Thats why I stayed so long with my boyfriend. If he thinks your not loving him enough because you won't have sex with him. Find another guy. That guys just wants sex with you. He dosen't like you for who you are. So yes. He is just shy. So loveable.
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