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female
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30-35,
*urassicbark
writes:He's mighty handsome, but we both know what's at jeopardy here. At least I hope so.Okay, so, here goes:-Whenever we have a class discussion, if I'm not talking, my teacher will look at me. When he's reading the paper and no one's talking, he does the same thing. He doesn't do it to anyoe else but me. He'll look up at me once, then look down, then look at me again three to five seconds later. He'll do it over and over.-When he sits down or is standing up, his feet are always (about 95% of the time) pointed at me. I heard this was a sign of attraction.-When he says something, like gives an idea, he seems to look at me for approval. If not, he'll ask for my opinion. Yet, he doesn't do this with other students.-And he always tries to start small talk with me. I think it's cute, and it makes my young heart melt. He's in his mid-30's, is married, has three toddlers... and I'm, well... 16. Bronze in age, golden at mind. This wouldn't make the relationship "right", but maybe that's why he prefers me over other students? Because I can take subjects in maturely? This just perplexes me because I've never had a man treat me like this before. It feels great.
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reader, slimfish  +, writes (11 December 2010):
 sorry but it think you have got this all very wrong.
some teachers use the technique of talking to one student as a means of communication to the whole class. its much easier to pick a kind and pretty face out of a room of twenty, and see the reaction for what hes teaching, than to observe all twenty faces.
he cant and wont have a relationship with you, so dont set yourself up for a bad fall.
be flattered he has chosen you as his focal point, and enjoy his teaching. it dose mean he likes you, and is interested in your reaction to what hes saying.
but he wont be wanting to leave his wife and kids for you.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (11 December 2010):
 http://www.dearcupid.org/question/crushes-on-teachers.html
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2010): You seem to be a very intelligent student. Are you listening in class at all? Enjoy the attention, study well, raise your doubts confidently and get golden grades.
BTW, you are too young to say that "I've never had a man treat me like this before. It feels great."
Good Luck!
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