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writes: MODERATOR'S NOTE: Two questions combined.hi guys and gals!i have a major problem. i am a girl and i am not like most girls are. You know likes: jewelry, make up, dresses, etc. I am more of a tomboy and most of my friends were boys and tomboys so i never had a crush on a guy. until when i started dance class when i was 9 i met a boy who was 12 who was my dance teacher's son and had a major crush on him right when i set my eyes on him! this never happened before in my whole life! i am now 14 and he is 17 going to be 18 pretty soon. he knows that i like him but i don't know he likes me back. everytime i try and talk to him... nothing comes out just embarrassing words. What should i do? Help me please!!!!Second question:Hi guys.Here's the problem. i really like this guy and confessed my likings for him. but he called me ugly four-eyed horror girl! and that really hurt. it was my frist time hearing this and i am trying really hard to be a little girly but after hearing that. i feel like changing. how should i handle it? i didn't tell my friends or anyone. should i tell them?
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reader, Abella +, writes (11 December 2010):
How old was he when he said that? He may have been shocked at you declaring your interest in him, but not mature enough to give you a coherent reply. Better indicators of a boy liking you is him always looking at you. Wanting ti be helpful to you. Finding little opportunities to touch your hand or stand closer to you. Or 'accidently' often just meeting you in passing. Only time and his actions will tell if he really likes you. Watch his actions and how he behaves when in your company.
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reader, Mjfbla +, writes (11 December 2010):
OK is the guy in question two the same as in question 1? most likely with that big age difference he is going to have other interest. Sorry sweetie. Id just let it go. And for question 2. Dont you dare change your self. You didnt deserve to be told that and i doubt its true. Dont let a guy change who you are. Stay true to yourself. In changing you are admiting there is something wrong with you and there isnt.
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