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*nnie-d
writes:my boyfriend wants to lick me out and i know this'll sound a bit stupid but where would i look while he's going down on me?And i'm the type of person who'd be embarrassed if it felt good enough to make me moan or something, how could i get over this?Any help appreciated, thankyou
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2010): first of all, do you want him going down on you? and does he want to go down you? that's half the battle. but dim the lights, knit your fingers in his hair and let him do his thing, but as to what to say? if you're not comfortable talking about what he's doing, just say the kinds of things you'd say if you were getting a really great backrub: 'omg, that feels good! gawd, don't stop!" i mean, seriously, no normal guy is going to feel bad for that - but if you want to take it to another level, take a deep breath and talk as dirty as you dare, pretend you are an actress, *be* an actress, play the part, and you will feel the part, it doesn't have to be fake, and just make sure to enjoy it - relax, that's what oral is supposed to be, i mean, hopefully the guy loves giving his woman pleasure, so it's good for him, too, but it's basically about her (you), so enjoy it!
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reader, Illithid  +, writes (12 December 2010):
 You can close your eyes if that makes you feel more relaxed. Or you can stare him in the eyes, which makes it so much more powerful. Or if your man is anything like me, go ahead and work your fingers into his hair and make it more intimate and exciting for both of you. If you feel a moan coming, remember that when you make noise, he feels like the best man on the planet! If you look him in the eye and whisper things to him, he'll feel like he's absolutely amazing! And if you just lay back, stare at the ceiling and stay quiet, do so. Enjoy it however you're comfortable. He's already down there, already eating you, he's not going to decide he doesn't like you NOW! Just enjoy yourself and don't worry about looking silly. NO ONE looks sophisticated while having an orgasm.
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reader, livelaughlove23 +, writes (11 December 2010):
The guy likes to know if he's doing a good job. He will get turned on even more when he hears you! Let him know how he's doing. My bf goes down on me all the time and, you will see, you won't be able to control NOT moaning lol.
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reader, rivi +, writes (11 December 2010):
Why not get him to turn round and give u the benefit of his penis in yr mouth while he's dealing with yr mound of venus ???
Double pleasure for you both......
Enjoy !
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2010): Just do what feels natural. There is no "right" way.
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reader, rcn +, writes (11 December 2010):
 I don't know about your guy, but when i do that to a gal I get excited off of their response and body movements. I'd recommend to just be natural, embrace and move into your feelings. Moaning, screaming and your hips moving into it are natural. Feeling good should not be an embarrassment.
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reader, harleygirl2010 +, writes (11 December 2010):
 I agree with fluffyPie. Just let him take control and don't be afraid to let him know how you feel about it. They like to know that your enjoying it.
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reader, FluffyPie +, writes (11 December 2010):
 Just close your eyes and enjoy the moment, let him take charge of it :)
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