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writes:Due to major unresolved problems in our relationship, I chose to leave my partner of nine years on July 4, 2010. We had been having problems since Feburary, but on that day I could take no more. Yes. I am the one the left, but I didn't leave with intentions to stop loving her or planning to move onto anyone else. Quite honestly, I wanted her to prove she loved me and fight for me. Anyway, I began dating another girl, but I never expected it to go anywhere. For lack of a better phrase, it was simply something to do and kill time. That ended up being the best attitude to have because she turned out to be a completed b@t#h! Despite my hopes and her statements, my partner did not choose to fight for me and opted for sleeping with a man to kill her pain. At the end of July we reconciled, but the fact that she slept with a man is killing me. Can anyone offer some advice to help me get through this? I fear I will lose my relationship if I don't figure out a way to put this behind me. Please help!
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reader, lilly123  +, writes (12 December 2010):
 in all honesty you have no right to be mad to her for sleeping with anyone (man or woman) when your the one who started seeing someone first because after all that time of being with someone and then seeing them moving on is crushing and hurts so we seek comfort from anyone
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo +, writes (11 December 2010):
 Its hard to put it behind you because if she had slept with another woman that is ehat you were expecting, but a man is different something that you arent and can never be and that is why it hurts more than another woman. You have to put her behind you or she will ruin your new relationship aswell as your old one, you left her and you have to think of it like that you left her for a reason and now you have a chance to be happy dont give it up for past issues
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2010): ~HUMANITY~
I am a lesbian.
I am offended that you not only infer that men are inferior to women but worse more, you essentially equate them to infectious bacteria and/or virus.
Half of you is "eww," substantiated by genetic mapping. Does this mean your girlfriend copy and paste this question under her name?
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