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writes:Three years ago my girlfriend and I decided to have a 3some with a girl that we had just recently started geting to know. So one night after the bar closed that my girlfriend worked at we all went back to our house and started playing around with drinking, and kissing, and making out and sexual touching. Well when it came down to second ygr girl we brought home wanted it to be just the two girls only couldn't even watch. This went on for over a month before I was involved. So the girl and I couldn't get along and so my girlfriend startedyo send all her time with her new friend and it got to the point were the girlfriend moved out for the summer just to spend time with her. Well me and the girlfriend worked things out then the friend comes back around and things go good and the girls want to make it a relationship and have her move in but then things go bad again cause the gal don't want the treat me as an equal member of the relationship and so they both move out and they move out of state. Well they work things out with me and so I move to be with them and things are going good for awhile but once again the gal we brought into this dictates everything about the relationship and has the sat with sex and so we start to fight again and now I'm told I can't sleep in our bed and I can't even shower in the same bathroom as them and the talking and companionship is very little and the two of them leave me to my self and the girlfriend is only worried about making sure that the gal is happy. So I'm at a loss are they after a lesbian relationship or a different man should I stay and see what happens with use or do I just get going I care for and love them both but after six months of nothing and sleeping alone while they sleep together every night I'm confused as to what to expect or do
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2010): All of this sounds very up and down. They want you then they don't. There is a reason why they keep changing there minds. I personally would not be involved in a relationship like this. How do you even deal? I hate to say it but for some reason Im getting that they are using you. It sounds like they are playing a game with you. I Would definetly leave the whole situation!! Good Luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2010): I guess this is why you shouldn't have a threesome. I think you should leave and try to move on from the whole situation. It sounds very unhappy for you.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (11 December 2010):
 Do you contribute financially to the household, pay the rent, buy the food etc etc because from what you have said I cannot see why they bothered themselves enough to have you move in.
I dont understand what you thought would be in this move for you, they had already treated you so dismally.
Your relationship with your EX girlfriend seems to be getting worse and worse, I would simply pack my bags and walk out, they dont even deserve a goodbye.
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