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anonymous
writes:I've been with my boyfriend for a little over 3 months and we regularly have sex. I have been with a few others before him and i dont think i have ever had an orgasm. The thing is (it sounds silly) but i dont think i know what one feels like. I mean - i love having sex and dont get me wrong it feels awsome but its never ever felt like what people say about orgasms.Can anyone possibly explain how it feels? or what else i could do to get one? I've tried doing it on my own, that didnt work either, and clitorial stimulation doesnt really do anything for me. I want to enjoy sex!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2010): Getting yourself to have an orgasm is feeling an urge, or impulse such as "horniess" and following through with that urge until you feel relieved. Clitoral stimulation is the most important. Are you sure you are playing with the right spot on your clitorus? I think the hugest thing is not thinking too hard. Orgasms come when you are relaxed and comfortable. Most women find it hard to hit the big O during intercourse though, so don't feel like you are the only one. You just have to go with the flow. Play with your clitorus while you are having intercourse, find things that turn you on such as porn, and it will make it easier for your body to naturally succumb to that impulse. Agreeing with the other response to your question, try using a vibrator... they work wonders! And then also, try touching other parts of your body while you masturabte. Play with your nipple, or tickle yourself, feel sexy. Then go with it! You will soon have an orgasm no problem!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2010): It's generally a warm, "spasming" feeling down there.. Get a vibrator and get yourself coming to know what it really is. Trust me, after I used one... I kept craving to cum.
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