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writes:I am bisexual. I have a close friend, and we play fight, and flirt. She is straight. We hug, and joke a lot. She spends the night a lot, and we text each-other everyday almost. She was over my house washing dishes, but then I tried to kiss her on the cheek to thank her, and she pulled away jokingly. I sense I was making her uncomfortable. So I pulled back and brushed it off.She got serious and was like I'm leaving and left. I was so upset with myself. I like her as more than a friend, but would rather keep her as a friend then lose her. Later on I texted her, and basically blew me off and was like I'm with Joe, and my phone getting cut off. I sense she was lien cause I have a good feelings.. like yeah. Three days later I called and her phone is still on but she told me it would be off. She forwarded the call.How should I handle this.. Am I at fault? Did I creep her out. I just need outside input.sn- We joke like the same day.. we was sitting at school texting, and i was like who are you texting? your boyfriend? she was like noe. I said your girlfriend and smiled and said yup, and texted me hello.So idk why the kissing on the cheek would freak her out. Im so confused....
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo  +, writes (11 December 2010):
 Straight girls love a good flirt with their bisexual or lesbian friends, i have met many of them! But when it comes to a kiss or any actual attention they freak and and run. So i think she may have just got scared, why dont you explain it was a misunderstanding and you just want to be friends, good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2010): haha lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2010): I think it's possible that after her teasing and you brushed it off, she felt the situation became a bit awkward and wanted to beat it out of there. I don't think you offended her and are still in her good books. She still communicates with you and sees you often, so obviously you have not lost any appeal. Keep your hopes up and wait for the next moment that feels right... don't get discouraged by her playfulness.
Again, confidence!
Tante Victoire
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