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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:My exbf called me a selfish cunt tonight because I don't want to hang out with him or his friend until it won't bother me that he is going out with a girl her met at his job.he thinks i should be over it by now but how can he when everytime we run into each other I break down in tears.our mutual friends tell him all how much I cry and want try again but he's going on like we weren't an item for 14 mos.i don't think he felt the same way I did because how can he think it would be easy for me to be his friend when i love him and want him with me but I would have to see him flirting with other girls.does that mean he never loved me?why is he mad because i can't be his friend? I didn't do anything wrong for him to call me a selfish cunt and he got in my face and was screaming it. His friend got. In between us because he thought my exbf was going to hit me.why is he furious because I just can't sit back and not hurt when I'm around him?am I being a selfish cunt?
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reader, Abella  +, writes (11 December 2010):
 You are practising self protection. While i accept that you still feel something for this guy, you are seeing an ugly side to this guy that is not nice. A guy who truly loves and cares, and loves does not call his love interest such disrespectful names. Nor does a real guy require have to be physically restrained by a friend, from the threat of physical violence. You are still feeling sad at the break up, but no guy has a right to threaten you, nor call you repugnant nasty names. There are nicer guys out there than this guy. If he could stop speaking to you so disrespectfully and treat you better, i would reconsider what i have said.
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