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writes:Hi, well a week ago my boyfriend (18) broke up with me (16) because I hurt him really badly. I didnt cheat on him but I did have a few drinks and ended up all over another guy. We had a big fight then and he told me that I broke his heart and that he will never trust me again. I am so devasted by this and i can't accept that its over. I have been talking to him since trying to get him to give me another chance but he says he doesn't give second chances because everytime he does it gets thrown back in his face. I know I sound like a bad person who doesn't deserve him but he's my first love and i would do anything to turn back time and put things right. For the past 8 months our relationship was wonderful and i can't believe I ruined it all by making one mistake! Please I need someones help to get him back and I need to know theres still hope! I cant move on from the person I love and I know he still loves me too. If I dont fix this I will regret it forever...
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (3 August 2010):
There is no hope on this occasion. Men in general don't give that many chances, especially if they have been hurt before. You have got to stop chasing him and step away. The more you chase him, the more he will run. He needs time to think about what has happened, and time to think about whether he can give you a second chance. But, from what you're saying, I don't think it will work. I gave a second chance to someone once, and got hurt again. I don't give second chances anymore, and I suspect your boyfriend is the same if he has been hurt. You may well have blown this, so step back and let him do his own thing. That will give him time to think about whether he wants to be with you or not.
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reader, candygirl_iraq  +, writes (3 August 2010):
I can relate to your boyfriend completely. I know this because my boyfriend got drunk a while ago and allowed some girl to kiss him.He admitted that he didnt mind it. Even though him and i were officially off at that time, it still broke my heart. The only way i trusted my bf is when he promised he would stop drinking.maybe u should try doing the same.
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