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writes:Hello everyone!I'm a 18 year old guy and I love masturbating. I'm not obsessed with it, I only do it 3-5 times a day, but it's not like I can't stop if I wanted to or that I'm doing it in public.I want to get a male sex toy, but I can't because I'm still living with my parents. I was wondering if there are any home made sex toys for men or other interesting ways for me to have a more powerful orgasm when I masturbate.I've thought about using things like rubber bands etc for cock rings, but I wanted some advice first.I'm quite experimental and open to pretty much anything, (I've even tried masturbating from behind, but I don't think I got it right)Thanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2010): Not sure what you're after. Sounds like you are into doing stuff with your penis, not so much the backdoor. If so, not much "homemade" stuff. I will admit I used a PVC fishing rod holder once when I was a teen. No where near as nice as a hand or vagina. Maybe you need a girlfriend...or boyfriend if you go that way. Just use protection. I'm 41, have been with many partners, and have to say the most truly powerful orgasms I've had were with my hand. Most "satisfying" were with women.
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reader, Yos  +, writes (4 August 2010):
 I suggest trying to stick to once a day.
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (4 August 2010):
 No, there is really not much you can do for a home made sex toy. Go to an adult store. They have lots of options and you don't have to worry about a mysterious package coming to your door.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for everyones advise!
I've already looked at getting a toy online and I know they packaging is all descrete, but my parents are still gunna know somethings up when I randomly revive a parcel one day. Hence me thinking along the home made road. Are there any thing I can find around the house? Or things that I can buy that don't appear to be sex toys at all?
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reader, dirtball +, writes (3 August 2010):
Try the fleshlight. Discrete delivery, and pretty amazing stimulation.
You might want to check out an adult gift store if you're worried about delivery.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2010): 3-5 times a day? Hmmm... That sounds pretty excessive to me for a daily habit. You might want to think about cutting back rather than finding ways to get MORE into it? Just my two cents... A sex toy would make it feel better, but it would make it even MORE fun would be having a little tension built up. That would probably feel better than a sex toy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2010): it is quiet normal for lads/men to masturbate, the older you get the more you will experience more sexual ways to enjoy yourself. maybe you need to look for a girlfriend an then you will enjoy eachother an then the excitement of sex will become better an more enjoyable. if this isnt an option an you are too embarrased to go into a sex shop why not look on line i hope this message helps xx
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reader, GettingInYourBizness +, writes (3 August 2010):
 Rubberbands, etc - sounds dangerous man. I think you should just accept masturbation for what it is, a release. And yeah, 3-5 times a day IS obsessive.
I'm not a guy, but a chick that does go solo a lot, and I've been doing it for a long time. I think everyone wants stronger orgasms but realize that as a 1 person operation I do think it's limits to the intensity. What I found out what works to intensify it a bit..
Is to get really close to orgasming, than stop for a 30 seconds-minute, and do it again until really close, on the 3rd or 4th time I'll go all the way and this does increases the intensity a lot compared to going through all the way the 1st time.
Sorry if this is something you already know but it's the only I know to increase the intensity when going solo.
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reader, Lotsalove. +, writes (3 August 2010):
 Theres plenty of things around the house that you can use whether you want something anal or cock ring alike. But homemade things aren't made for masturbating purposes, therefore its a good chance that something could break, snap or damage you. Not the nicest thought if im honest.
Lovehoney.com and annsummers both provide amazing sex toys for both female and male and even those to use as a couple. Theres toys that are the length of your arm and those that simply sit on the tip of your finger. I recommend you to take a browse and see what you can find.
As straight as my boyfriend is, he cant get enough of anal pleasure whilst im performing oral on him. He goes crazy and has the most intense orgasm, and im exactly the same. Men have G-Spots in the anus, so if this is what you're looking for then look at butt plugs or anal beads. You can go for cock rings also, you can even buy a mini vibrator if you want. The options are endless. Just because you live with your parents, doesnt mean you have to limit your masturbation. Choose times when their out, get a lock on your bedroom door, Or my favourite, if your getting in the bath (or shower) run it and get in the bathroom before its finished running, lock the bathroom door and have fun. The noise of the bath will hide your moans ;)
Good Luck Sweetie!
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